[isabel]

Hummmmm. This is a dam if you do...dam if you don't subject now. Pan expressed his views...even if you don't like his view...he presented it in a calm fashion and was true to his thoughts. He didn't say what "He thought you wanted to hear" or what is "politically correct". But what he was honestly thinking and feeling.

Several posters do it here without restraint of any kind. Yet they see someone else doing it as a crime. That's the kitchen pot, calling the kitchen kettle black. I honestly didn't take offense with Pans first couple of post in the gay bashing section..."to each their own thoughts on the subject". But I think he was jabbed at by several following post and those posts did not contribute any real info to the thread they were meant to do just that. Make Pan defensive and angry. Un called for. A quote from pan:

[quote] I love how some of you pull one small part form a whole topic or post and fixate on it, and then try to use it against the person like a dagger seeking its target. Normaly this is done when you feel your loosing an argument or feel you have nothing else to contribute, so you resort to these tactics as a way to draw the other person into a conflict... something you can win. [end quote]

I think he was correct in his post above. I for one am getting sick of dancing around the daggers.

Sorry, I forgot to breathe.

Izzy