Live in NC, my husband's dream is to move back to pittsburgh after he gets out...

susie c · 12-27-2007, 03:36 PM

...of navy. I don't want to leave. I don't want to leave because, i am the only one around to look out for my deaf mother, who just lost her own mother and is grieving. my family and friends are here. He doesn't have a job to move for or anything just wants to get out of the south. we would just be moving on a whim. with no reason to leave everything i know and love behind. He hates it here, i don't want him to be miserable. but I don't want to leave my mother either. It's like i have to choose ! and i am miserable. he wants to leave in march after he gets out of the military. I hate the cold and snow , he loves it . I don't want to lose him , just want to be happy . what should i do ?? , seriously help!

Lunaeclipz · 12-27-2007, 03:37 PM

Tell him you need tostay for a while and to consider your feelings. If not tell him you will join him later and he can go and find a job etc.-I doubt he'll stay without you-if he does then he's not much of a husband!

12-27-2007, 03:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
susie c Newbie Join Date: Dec 27th, 2007 Posts: 1	Live in NC, my husband's dream is to move back to pittsburgh after he gets out... ...of navy. I don't want to leave. I don't want to leave because, i am the only one around to look out for my deaf mother, who just lost her own mother and is grieving. my family and friends are here. He doesn't have a job to move for or anything just wants to get out of the south. we would just be moving on a whim. with no reason to leave everything i know and love behind. He hates it here, i don't want him to be miserable. but I don't want to leave my mother either. It's like i have to choose ! and i am miserable. he wants to leave in march after he gets out of the military. I hate the cold and snow , he loves it . I don't want to lose him , just want to be happy . what should i do ?? , seriously help!

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12-27-2007, 03:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
Lunaeclipz Newbie Join Date: Dec 27th, 2007 Posts: 1	Tell him you need tostay for a while and to consider your feelings. If not tell him you will join him later and he can go and find a job etc.-I doubt he'll stay without you-if he does then he's not much of a husband!