Should I move to Nashville, Tennessee with my bf?

pooh_87_ash · 12-12-2007, 11:20 AM

My boyfriend and I are both college students. I graduate next year and he's transferring to Vanderbilt this year. When I graduate he wants me to go to but I'm not sure if I should. Can anyone one give me some advice?
We've been together for 3 years

oge · 12-12-2007, 11:52 AM

if you are quite sure he really loves you then go ahead .

Not OK · 12-12-2007, 12:30 PM

Ask yourself if you really love him. If you love him will go head, AND GOOD LUCK!!!!!

**the dufferz** · 12-13-2007, 01:41 AM

He's a boyfriend. Three years is a long time, but he still is just a boyfriend. I don't know, maybe if there was a ring involved with a date etc, that would be better.

Will you be leaving family behind? If so, that is a big step without a long term commitment.

The dufferz

**isabel** · 12-13-2007, 10:52 PM

But here is the deal. If you are asking us if you should take this adventure in life...then you already know the answer:) You know if this plan is okay or not in your heart. But just to clear your head, sit down make a check list of all the pro's and con's and then ask yourself...not only is it right...but is it smart.

3 years is a long relationship without the ring. You know the guy by now. Do you want to put all the energy and time in this big change you're thinking of? And how hard would it be to undo if it doesn't work out. Are you going against family in your choices. Are you closing doors that you might want to stay open?

Lots of questions only you can answer. Heck, I've picked up and gone many a times...But then I've got a lot of years on you.

Izzy

**Wyoming53** · 12-14-2007, 12:34 PM

Would you, could you, do it alone? If something happens, could you make it there, on your own?

Even married, that's something you have to look at. If something happens, God forbid, could you make it on your own?

12-12-2007, 11:20 AM	#1 (permalink)
pooh_87_ash Newbie Join Date: Dec 12th, 2007 Posts: 1	Should I move to Nashville, Tennessee with my bf? My boyfriend and I are both college students. I graduate next year and he's transferring to Vanderbilt this year. When I graduate he wants me to go to but I'm not sure if I should. Can anyone one give me some advice? We've been together for 3 years

12-13-2007, 01:41 AM	#4 (permalink)
the dufferz Duff man! Join Date: Jan 04th, 2007 Location: Bothell, Washington Posts: 1,320	Re: Should I move to Nashville, Tennessee with my bf? He's a boyfriend. Three years is a long time, but he still is just a boyfriend. I don't know, maybe if there was a ring involved with a date etc, that would be better. Will you be leaving family behind? If so, that is a big step without a long term commitment. The dufferz __________________ "Who am I and what am I doing here?" - James stockdale, Ross Perrot VP candidate, VP debate, 1992. My favorite political statement.

12-13-2007, 10:52 PM	#5 (permalink)
isabel STAYING RIGHT HERE Join Date: Jan 17th, 2007 Location: Central CA Posts: 1,361	Re: Should I move to Nashville, Tennessee with my bf? But here is the deal. If you are asking us if you should take this adventure in life...then you already know the answer:) You know if this plan is okay or not in your heart. But just to clear your head, sit down make a check list of all the pro's and con's and then ask yourself...not only is it right...but is it smart. 3 years is a long relationship without the ring. You know the guy by now. Do you want to put all the energy and time in this big change you're thinking of? And how hard would it be to undo if it doesn't work out. Are you going against family in your choices. Are you closing doors that you might want to stay open? Lots of questions only you can answer. Heck, I've picked up and gone many a times...But then I've got a lot of years on you. Izzy __________________ I discuss, I do not debate:)

12-14-2007, 12:34 PM	#6 (permalink)
Wyoming53 Hermit Join Date: Jan 21st, 2007 Location: Sheridan, Wy. Posts: 1,522	Re: Should I move to Nashville, Tennessee with my bf? Would you, could you, do it alone? If something happens, could you make it there, on your own? Even married, that's something you have to look at. If something happens, God forbid, could you make it on your own? __________________ Wyoming Heat.

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12-12-2007, 11:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
oge Newbie Join Date: Dec 12th, 2007 Posts: 1	if you are quite sure he really loves you then go ahead .

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Not OK Newbie Join Date: Dec 12th, 2007 Posts: 1	Ask yourself if you really love him. If you love him will go head, AND GOOD LUCK!!!!!